Author: mirko

  • The Truth About Relationship | Amoda Maa

    The Truth About Relationship | Amoda Maa

    Maa argues that the primary, often unconscious, impulse driving individuals into relationships is the seeking of fulfillment and wholeness from an external source. This seeking mechanism, she contends, is fundamentally flawed and mirrors the misguided pursuit of enlightenment as a means to escape inner lack. True and lasting love, according to Maa, can only emerge…

  • The Role of Love

    The Role of Love

    True love is not attachment or desire but “the most beautiful expression of our pure beingness of our awareness.”

  • How to have a happy lasting marriage or a relationship?

    How to have a happy lasting marriage or a relationship?

    “Ultimately, a marriage based on awareness and true love, rather than personhood and ego, can be the most beautiful and happy marriage, regardless of whether it lasts or not.”

  • Sex

    Sex

    Sex as a biological function, sex as an attempt to fill a sense of lack, sex as a way to say hello 🙃?

  • Girls and women

    Girls and women

    “… to prepare the way for, the love that consists in two solitudes protecting, defining and welcoming one another.”

  • Sacred Relationships?

    Sacred Relationships?

    As a draft: Sacred relationship = A living/teaming/learning together where Presence is more important than pleasing, pleasure, expectations, attachments.

  • A passion for practical peace!

    A passion for practical peace!

    My name is Holger, I am currently in an easy, loving, respectful divorce (after 13+ years). Full of gratitude for the gift of friendship, mind and speech. Such an important topic, this mating thingy! Doesn’t it affect all areas of life, peace, maturity, joy, health, energy? No claim to fame, I just want to listen…

  • The human mating process

    The human mating process

    “The human mating process encompasses the social and cultural processes whereby one person may meet another to assess suitability, the courtship process and the process of forming an interpersonal relationship.”

  • I don’t know

    I don’t know

    Not lost in the chit-chat of the mind, but still, open, available, vulnerable. Shamelessly resting in being; effortlessly. Instead I always ran away from no-thing, it felt awkward when there was no content, when mind had nothing to do. What an interesting thing this me-chanism of the person! And how long we can suffer until…

  • Loving us

    Loving us

    Thank you Deanna, for touching my heart so deeply. So amazing this feeling of being “safe with you”, so sweet, so delicious, priceless. Safe in myself, not two, no need to hide anything, nothing to defend, nothing missing!