Category: Welcome

As a draft: Sacred relationship = A living/teaming/learning together where Presence is more important than pleasing, pleasure, expectations, attachments.

My name is Holger, I am currently in an easy, loving, respectful divorce (after 13+ years). Full of gratitude for the gift of friendship, mind and speech. Such an important topic, this mating thingy! Doesn’t it affect all areas of life, peace, maturity, joy, health, energy? No claim to fame, I just want to listen…

“The human mating process encompasses the social and cultural processes whereby one person may meet another to assess suitability, the courtship process and the process of forming an interpersonal relationship.”

Not lost in the chit-chat of the mind, but still, open, available, vulnerable. Shamelessly resting in being; effortlessly. Instead I always ran away from no-thing, it felt awkward when there was no content, when mind had nothing to do. What an interesting thing this me-chanism of the person! And how long we can suffer until…

Thank you Deanna, for touching my heart so deeply. So amazing this feeling of being “safe with you”, so sweet, so delicious, priceless. Safe in myself, not two, no need to hide anything, nothing to defend, nothing missing!